PLAIN HAPPINESS

Are you ALIVE? It said that One essential standard for living is being able to be happy. Are you HAPPY? They say happiness is a choice, which is true but it takes a whole load of either self worth or self recognition to understand that statement. I don’t know about you, but I battle with happiness. I find happiness like seasons may come and go. . What is Happiness? I think most people are looking for happiness, but we really don’t know the true meaning of it. According to Wikipedia Happiness is a mental state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. (I kind of agree with it). For the longest of times I thought, happiness comes from being liked, that if everyone liked me I would be happy and so I worked hard to be the epitome of perfection. I believed that Happiness could be found in many different forms, either in shopping, being a YES person, having people around me or even in my Reading. Happiness IS a state of mind, and in order for one to be truly happy, you need to be able to understand that everything is good within your own life. For me it meant that I understood that everything that has happened in my past happened for a reason, way beyond my control, and coz of it I am a better person. I also found that the best kind of happiness is when you know that you are able to care for someone and that they may care about you. It can be as simple as your friends, but that you care about them enough that you want what is best for them and in return they want the same for you. I am not saying that I am constantly happy, but I am satisfied in knowing that I Continue to Exist among other people, animals and things and that one day I may cease to exsist, but I want to be remembered for my Energy and ripple effect through time Everyone I know says they are