Monday, March 12, 2012

APPRECIATION

Hmmm you smell really good………………………. At times I look at you and I wonder how my life without you would be…………………. Thanks for all that you are ……………….. Where am I going with this? It’s said that all a husband or a wife wants is to be pitied a little, praised a little and appreciated a little. I want to talk about appreciation, as a child when you are told good girl/boy, that is heavenly , at school (in front of people) wow that is pure bliss, at your work place, extra motivation. Do you think that your man should complement you, or do you think that compliments are vital? (I DO) Well to the saying above (highlighted Portion) SO TRUE at least for ME as a woman. I enjoy and to be very honest I expect to be appreciated, to be loved and cared for by man (MR RIGHT,). To some it may be expecting too much but hey a girl is entitled to what she wants. This is because then I feel like he understands me more. Believe it or not, words of appreciation spoken directly from a romantic partner, go far in paving the way to a happy relationship and it takes more that a “hey baby, you are hot” to really win the points(with me at least). . Trivial as it may seem notice my hair, or a new scent. When I make a good meal appreciate it (don’t boycott it). It’s like a stabbing pain when you feel that you are not being appreciated, Being Appreciated is an emotional need, and this is not surprising, because without close satisfying relationships, our life’s become lonely, boring and meaningless. This is not for women only but for guys as well, as in do this compliment him often, the things that do it for you, his height, when he shaves, happy relationship makes life exciting, meaningful and fulfilling. TRY IT (both men and women)