They say Love isn't a decision. It's a feeling. If we could decide who we loved, it would be much simpler, but much less magical. I have been having an ongoing argument on whether you love your Husband/fiancée/ boyfriend or are you in love with them? Apparently being in love is something that women have concocted anyway I don’t want to talk on love, the sweet butterfly kiss feeling. No I want to talk about this side of love:
Love’s first blushing fading? Lost that loving feeling? Love is not all around?
Are this just clichés or does it actually happens? When you started your relationship you had powerful feelings of love towards your partner, but these have now faded. Or you find, you have become bored with the relationship and wonder whether it will last. What happens in a long-term partnership when one half of the team feels as though he or she is falling out of love? Is the love really gone? Or are Most of us probably allured by the attractive notion that effortless relationships exist. Whether it be happily-ever-after marriages, or friendships which last forever, or parent/child bonds which supersede the need to understand each other, or is Love a fabric which never fades, no matter how often it is washed in the water of adversity and grief?
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