TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL

I prefer that you tell me the truth even it its hurts rather than lie to me just to make me happy………………………….how true is this statement……. And I ask in this context . Say you have a good friend or an acquaintance whom you like and you meet her man out in the clubs or in a restaurant and you see her man with some other woman looking too cozy…….DO YOU OR DON’T YOU TELL? I am of the school of thought please tell , why you may ask, it’s so important for us women to start covering each other’s nakedness with love. - I expect you would want no less if the roles were reversed and I saw your boyfriend cheating on you. . I don't care about saving a friendship with someone who won't look out for my best interests and at least be straight up with me. Some may argue that the messenger will be shot well this is tricky but do you think your friend can be so shallow to that point, if one of my friends knew I was being cheated on and didn't tell me, I would probably never speak to them again. Hell, even if an acquaintance knew and didn't tell me, I would want nothing to do with them. Medically speaking there are hundreds of STD's out there, a good friend MUST tell a friend or family member when suspected infidelity is possible. A partner has a right to know, and it could be a matter of life or even death! Plus think about this we women have a sixth sense so if I think he is cheating on me then he probably is and am already having that uneasy feeling so you will be playing a vital role in helping me realize that I am not a stupid, jealous and psycho woman. What happens if the person already knows and is in a state of denial, not wanting to accept? Well that’s a person’s predilection but you will have done your part and been a true friend. Come on ladies...let’s stick together and take care of each other. Men are very literal for them its bros before hoes so why can’t we make it chic’s before dics.